You feel you must be rid of it* and so 

you rid yourself of it and either you  

painlessly forget it, just as soon as

it's rid of, and find it wasn’t truly

essential to possess it after all;

or tidily recall it, even though

it's rid of, and find it wasn’t truly 

essential to possess it after all.

*What is it? It’s just as the weatherman

predicted: It’s wildfire spanning

the plains from the gilt edge to the very

beginning, sirening a grinding halt. 

It’s your sex life, caving in and crushing

its own past with tart revisionism.

Could it have ever been enough? Yes. No. 

But close enough one day out of every

and never-together still more ago: 

The sore sport’s awareness-without-remorse

of the cold toilet seat (where he could shit,

for once, with the door shut and the dust motes

little snow in the modest sun, thinking:

To be there, crook of the Wife-Neck, breathing 

that good Neck-Air must be a pleasant thing 

to see and hear) suggests he assess the

loneliness of yet before now was new.

Till then we'll be dead once, perfect strangers;

the coming spring presaging the coming 

End of spring, as we’ll claim we always knew.

Romeo: It’s my turn to cry. What if 

your wife forgot your birthday – or your name 

(for just one stunning moment, sure) or left 

sharp knives point-upward in the dishwasher?

Juliet: It's someone to share secrets

with – or about – when we’d had none, only

history stored in his-and-hers junk drawers,

hoarded confessions for the counselor.

The Counselor: Perception of self weeps

for its normal imperfection and the

Bandaid stays damp. Marriage is extremely

realistic: Killing two white doves with 

one precious stone bends full-blown fantasies 

immoral, marshaling brave schemata.

Stratified abstracts: Revisionist stains 

breathe out real-time teams of self-negating 

black ants walking briskly, pausing often...

It'll feel good to get rid of some stuff

(those rumpled sketchbooks). Creating no art

will become my art; contention that my 

shit don’t stink, the big promotion is not

worth finding in the first place I won’t look: 

   A frozen marsh, a hard-edged cloud. Against

   a deliberately wintry mix, dock lights

   fashion an old coat when, upon ditching 

   the illusion, as real as any dream, 

   of progress, we all find out it’s better

   to miss the boat by ten minutes than one.

I wasn’t scared, sitting on the sofa

together when the movie was over,  

expecting to be more-or-less denied 

(accept that it might not be, and it might,

except it won't), in the distant-siren 

city-silence. No, I was terrified: 

Was my victimhood not quite black-and-white?

“You get me but can't have me,” she stated,

“must earn it,” but sooner than I told her,

“I told you yesterday that yesterday 

was long ago, and restaged kissings you 

goodnight were dutifully belated 

prayers,” she fell asleep. The very next

morning she’d aged ten years, beautifully.

She wore the same scarlet hairband each day

regardless of outfit, like a labcoat,

and I'd fallen, charmed by the chant of rote

recurrence I might've loved her despite,

the girl I'd see mornings but never talk

to, who'd then betrayed me with her boyfriend;

our scarlet potential rendered bone white.

Beautiful women in New York – don't they

all seem to head straight for you, like buses

the second you step down from the sidewalk?

I’d like my recurring bit part to end,

please, for the need grows increasingly dire

to weigh the sorrow of sex work versus

the monastic repression of desire.

I set the dial for nineteen eighty-

something; summer; my own sun-baked front yard. 

Park in house-shadow, cricket-din, amongst 

the “wheat” and Queen Anne’s lace back there, sneak in

the house, up the stairs; from Tom’s bed (Tom’s bed;

taboo even now [then]), watch my old self 

watching for my older sister’s school (late

summer? early?) bus to heave its folding 

door and drop her off, through the pine tree V. 

And that's it. I sneak out of the window

(like i always wish i had [now(then)]), set

the dial for today, dinnertime-ish, 

return to find the house dark, the table 

cleared apart from one foil-covered dish.

In this realm of Maybe, the barbed current

of your wise, unspeakable feelings tied

double knots which later sometimes weren’t; 

a list of shames constructed with pre-war

sentiment, but you could hear a pin drop

if you pressed pretenses against the door 

to self esteem. Keep digging or propose

a new hole; start the day or a new dream

dishonest in the honesty you chose. 

Salt and smoke; dogged lines on the newly

middle aged evoke red fog. What succeeds

the final last straw? More straws, skating

free as fat teardrops, generating

the self-continuance of awful deeds?

At last, Grandpa’s least favorite; at best

my best friend’s eighth best friend. Now myriad 

impossible ways to be loved suggest

like ways to be impossibly hated.

I can’t be replaced if I don’t admit

you’re gone. Somewhere between am too concerned

and don't give a shit, this dogeared friendship

ran away from home (and never returned).

We hadn't spoken in so long, I think 

we stopped knowing each other. It reminds

me of the favorite shirt that I don't 

wear anymore, to keep a teensy tear

a teensy tear, and of Grandpa’s cufflinks,

I was afraid I'd lose so hid somewhere.

Let me say aloud what's best left unsaid. 

One sentence to destroy you (and leave me

better off dead...) else prove myself insane. 

Or not. Toughness doesn’t come from taking 

one's coffee black. No, that raised rash begins

within, surfaces in stock reaction

like the rainy day wiggle-worm. Beastly,

yes, but beasts wrong sinlessly. The green glass 

battle, just a dream; arguing how tall

is a leprechaun with a leprechaun, 

and waking to new blood stains. Vagary’s 

weak currency and only a “did you

get my text?” text bought me time to contain

the outburst – I’M SORRY I YELLED AT YOU!!!

“I've never been in a kayak,” I said

before I (drunk) got in one and pushed off

behind my brother-in-law, Matt, paddled 

in the dark to the riderless jet ski

drifting out in the middle of the lake,

prepared to find someone floating near it, 

facedown, or blood on the seat or, at least,

keys still hanging from the ignition but,

years later, I recalled that, years before, 

I already had been in a kayak

on my bicycle trip, in Idaho...

Anyhow, there was no body or blood;

most likely the jet ski wasn't tied up 

and had just drifted away from its dock.

Around the boulder I spied the day’s bare

conclusion, pink; stepped right in a tide pool

and threw my hands to the slippy granite

hoping to find yours among the many.

Screw falling down; unite raincoat plastered 

with red leaves. It's a new way to be fine:

Trees will lean down later to pat our hair.

Peaches yolk yellow flushed with giddy wine

looked good enough to eat, were all bone-hard. 

We picked just to have picked, earn an opal

of work sweat and kick back in the Airstream.

“I made you a refreshing drink,” Penny 

hands me a glass and says. “Guess what's in it... 

orange juice, milk, and vanilla ice cream.”

Lost in time only steps from his home, doomed 

to wait forever, first in friendless line

for that hot lunch, free CD; only these

small round Band-Aids to help him feel alone 

through the dry-eyed dream of return. Rightly,

the connective tissue of collective 

concern and hand-me-down fraternity 

curled up like blueprints; smiles in service

of propped bonds reached imaginary heights

and relaxed into grimaces nightly. 

Doomed. In the shade of a kitchen table 

littered with bills he makes wishes on a 

round-tipped star, when he’s drunk enough to care

or there's no such thing as a time machine.

The bead necklace lay coiled in its box,

wasted gift, while the cutting board softened.

It was a sort of sport, no? The way we

volleyed optimism? Shucks. In the end

we shared our meals unwilling when in lieu

of ambulant wishes, empty dishes 

might have been more filling. Take back your key;

save me, I cling as lichen to these rocks.

What will it take to lid this belching stew?

Daunting familiarity; to’ve met

before we’ve ever met and to carry

my name like the tied stem of a cherry.

No more watch the red sun’s broad amulet

deck low fruit I’d striven for from ditches.

I writhed behind tableaux of tangential 

friends I'd abruptly never see again

now the vector’d been withdrawn. Sequential 

loose ends, swallowed links of the anchor’s chain,

strobed shade beneath the helicopter’s fan.

   I tried not to feel so devastated,

   burrowed into specious bliss but, oddly,

   I was thriving in unexpected ways:

   Notions of kinship badly outdated 

   were let to recede downstream and replaced

   as Expectation, that ghoulish con-man,

   coughed out his lungs like a foreign body

   and drowned in a crock of horseshit as wide 

   as the ocean, a noble suicide.